Messaging Free Members

Our non-paying members do receive notification of new messages received, and often when they see interest being shown towards them, they subscribe so they can read and respond to those messages. We also offer free trials on a regular basis so non-paying members can read and send replies to their messages for a brief period of time.

Although our paying vs. non-paying members are not differentiated on the site, we do offer a premium service called "Email Read Notification," which allows paid members to see who has opened and read the messages they've sent. Members who are not active subscribers will only appear to receive messages, but they will always show the status of "unread" to the sender.

For NY/NJ/CT/TX/OK residents

You can now message for free with all Mutual Matches. If I like you and you like me back, either one of us can start the conversation; for free!

Free members also receive curated profiles that match your preferences and we believe could be great matches for you!