Private Mode

Private Mode is a Match feature that allows you to display your profile only to individuals you have communicated with. When you’re using Private Mode, you will see the message “They can see you” or “They can't see you” on other members’ profiles. You can then decide if you would like to change your visibility settings for that member by selecting 'unblock' or 'hide and block'.

Private Mode can be purchased during the initial subscription process or later at a pro-rated price.

Changing your visibility

You can easily manage your profile visibility settings at any time. All members can choose to make their profiles Visible or Hidden. If you’ve purchased Private Mode, you’ll also have the option to make your profile Private as well (visible only to members you have chosen to contact).

On the desktop site:

1. Click on your primary photo thumbnail in the navigation bar at the top of the screen.
2. Your visibility options are at the top of your profile page, on the right side.
3. Locate the visibility you would like for your profile: Anyone can see you, No one can see you (Hidden), or Choose who sees you (Private Mode).
4. When you select a new visibility option, the change will go into effect immediately.

On the mobile site:

1. Tap on the “Profile” icon at the bottom of the screen.
2. Tap on the gear icon at the top of your profile page.
3. Locate the visibility you would like for your profile: Anyone can see you, No one can see you (Hidden), or Choose who sees you (Private Mode).
4. When you select a new visibility option, the change will go into effect immediately.

On the Match app

1. Tap on the “Profile” icon at the bottom of the screen.
2. Tap on the gear icon at the top of your profile page.
3. Under “Profile Visibility,” select the visibility you would like for your profile: Visible, Hidden, or Private Mode.
4. When you select a new visibility option, the change will go into effect immediately.

If I discontinue am I visible?

If you visit a profile while in Private Mode but choose to discontinue the service at a later time, you will appear within the Who’s Viewed Me list once your profile is visible. If you are concerned with appearing on the Who’s Viewed Me list, we recommend you purchase Undercover.

Am I visible to others?

Existing Match – Make Visible

If you have communicated with another member prior to purchasing Private Mode, you will already be visible to them when the feature is activated. You can continue to communicate with that person as usual.

New Match – Make Visible

In order to appear visible to a potential match while in Private Mode, you must communicate with the member. Once any form of communication is sent, the member will immediately be able to view your profile and communicate with you. You can verify that you are visible by viewing the potential match’s profile after your communication has been sent, and it should state "He/She Can See You" under their primary photo.

What type of communication makes you visible to others in Private Mode?

When you’re using Private Mode, you will only be visible to members you’ve chosen to contact. If you see someone you’d like to be visible to, just communicate with them or show interest in one of the following ways:

• Send the member a Message.
• Send them a Like, Super Like, or an Event invitation.

Once the communication is sent, you will be visible to the member so they can check out your profile and respond to you.