Do my matches receive me as well?

Members don't know when they have been sent to you as a match and won't automatically receive you as a match at the same time. This is because all of the matching we do on our site is member-specific, meaning that our evaluation process to find your matches happens separately from our process to find matches for other members. 

Of course, with some features like Mutual Match that take both your criteria into account, there's a good chance that a match of yours will eventually receive you as a match, too.