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Improving Matching Results

Every member goes through the dilemma of how picky to be with matching preferences. The broader your criteria, the more matches you'll get, but the narrower your criteria, the greater chance you'll like the ones you receive!

We recommend adjusting your criteria over time to find the right balance. You can do this by signing into your account and following these steps:

  1. Click on your primary photo thumbnail in the top navigation bar.
  2. Scroll down to the What I'm Looking For section and click the Edit pencil icon to the right of the section you wish to change.
  3. Make any necessary updates and click "Apply."

An easy way to broaden your criteria is to make small changes to your age, height, or location preferences, or to adjust whether certain elements about your match are "Nice to Have" or "Must Have." These small changes can often have big results.

Please keep in mind that in order to set most of the preferences for your match and declare any of them as a "Must Have", you must be a subscribed member. To view our subscription options, click here.