Mutual Search

What are Mutual Searches?

Mutual Search is one of the best ways we have of pairing you up with other members we think you might be interested in based on what you told us in your profile. Based on your profile, you are looking for someone like them, and they are looking for someone like you. If you don't agree with the results, you can update your profile.

Where can I find it?

Head to the Search page and click on Mutual Search. If you have asked for matches to be sent to your personal email address, Mutual Searches can also be found in those messages. 

Depending on how broad/narrow your preferences are and how often we send your matches to you, we may not always have new Mutual Searches each time we email you.

I'm getting too many/too few matches

Mutual Search is based on your profile, so try to strike the right balance in how you define your ideal date. If your criteria is too narrow, you may not get as many results as you'd like. If it's too broad, you'll get some matches that don't quite pique your interest. 

We suggest that you edit your profile as needed to find your happy medium. After you make changes, your Mutual Search page will update the next time you sign in.