Messages

All of our free members are now able to chat with every match! This means that once you match with someone, you can message each other. 

Reading Messages

Click on the Matches or Likes tabs in the top navigation bar to view and respond to your messages. 

From the Likes Tab:

• Messages from unmatched members show up in your Likes tab.
• Tap their profile photo to see the message preview.
• Tap the message preview to open and respond.
  
  

From the Matches Tab:

• Subscribers will see new match notifications with a number bubble.
• Tap the Matches icon to view new messages.
• New/unread messages are bold. Tap Your Turn to reply.
• If no message is sent yet, “You turn” will be replaced with “she/he Liked you”, “you Liked him/her”, or “You’re a match”. When tapped, you can send a message. 

Responding to Messages

• On the site, a blue speech bubble appears throughout the site—tap it to message that member.
• On the app, tap the member’s profile to reply.
• In the Likes tab, click on the member’s profile page, and then tap the grey text bubble. A text box will appear at the bottom to respond.
• In the Matches tab, tap the profile of the member, then type your reply in the space at the bottom of the thread.
• Important: Messages can’t be unsent, recalled, or retracted once sent.

For NY/NJ/CT/TX/OK residents

You can now message for free with all Mutual Matches. If I like you and you like me back, either one of us can start the conversation, for free!

Free members also receive curated profiles that match your preferences, and we believe could be great matches for you.

Need Help? Log into your account to chat with us between 10:00 am and 3:00 pm Central Time. Monday through Friday.